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My Relationship and Sexuality


Last updated: 11-Feb-25@20:30-hrs Central Winnipeg time.

My Girlfrind Application

To learn about our poly relationship and to be involved with us romantically / intimately

What I am not into, is “open relationships” / “group sex” or “one night stand/casual encounters”, that’s definitely not me! Also, I'm not into the sub/sissy or D/s dynamics. I am not looking for a Mistress or Dominatrix.

I am Pansexual and Polyromantic. It means I can be attracted to anyone regardless of sex or gender and I can be attracted to multiple people, not all at the same time or with the same intensity.


What I look for in a partner

I am physically attracted to people with shaved heads, regardless of sex or gender. Also, people who are a bit on the chubby side (not fat) and who take care of themselves in terms of clothing, grooming and overall health.

I also love piercings especially on the lips, nose and ears. You probably guessed it, I love tattoos.

So my ideal “physical attraction” (regardless of sex or gender), will be someone with a shaved head, piercings on lips, nose and ears, lots of tattoos and not too skinny. AND they have to have an amazing personality!!!

I also find myself more attracted to trans people, crossdressers, queers, gays and lesbians more than the typical cis-woman/man hetro people.

Your personality will be the single key factor that will determine if I will paint a beautiful image of you in my mind or not. Without your good personality, I will never be attracted to you and will not be able to get sexually stimulated when we are intimate together.

My definition of good personality: Your empathy and kindness are the most important aspects I will look for. Being nice to me in general will go a long way with me. I never forget the people who are, and were, nice to me. Although a nice personality will get you through the door; however, without constant engagement with me, I will simply forget about you, until you surface back again into mylife. A simple daily email telling me “hi” will keep that connection going. And if you engage me enough, I will approach you and tell you that I’m falling for you. Remember, I am extremely affectionate and absolutely not shy or embarrassed from telling people, who I’m infatuated with, how I feel about them.

You also have to be someone who loves nature, animals and the outdoors. You need to be open minded, honest, easy going, drama free, and not too opinionated. If you are conservative in thinking, religious, racist, political or live a double life, we will not be a good match.

Honesty and being precise is key. Using double language, telling white-lies or selectively omitting some truths is deceitful and dishonest.

I’m flirtatious by nature. I talk to everyone. I believe the human body is a work of art and I’m not shy to show it off artistically. Unless I commit to someone, I will talk to all walks of life to gain experiences and learn from different perspectives. If you are with conservative views, you might not view me to your liking; therefore, be warned!
I am honest, drama free, precise, loyal and if we commit, I will be reserved to you only, and I will support you in all circumstances.


If you wish to get involved in a relationship with me, myself and Kissra (my soulmate and partner in life) are Poly and come as a one-package together! Also, please note, gender, age, background, looks or wealth are meaningless to us. What we look for is your personality!


My qualities & being with me!


I am a feminine-hybrid who is physically transitioning from male to female:

My partner(s) enjoys my feminine body and feminine psychology without the associated feminine or masculine annoyances.

For men:
Being born a male at birth gives me the advantage to know, with crystal clarity, male wants, ambitions and needs; I also got to know, very well, the female nuances that annoy males when being in a relationship with a CIS woman.

I feel like one of my best qualities include the best a female can offer mentally, sexually-(in terms of open minded and willing to explore and accommodate) and loyalty without the unwanted baggage since my logic and reasoning has male rationale that is grounded and in touch with actual reality. I feel that I can offer sound logic and peace of mind while providing the best pleasures one can ever explore, when contrasting with CIS women.

For women:
Understanding women's frustrations with men's nuances is my quality when being with a woman. You’ll find me refreshingly different and harmonious. I am genuine, loving and caring without the jealousy or superiority complexes. Also, very important to mention that I am very passionate, romantic and feminine. I lived most of my life with cis-women who are lesbian and femininity runs deep within the fiber of my being.

Sexual Hard Limits
Sexually speaking, I’m willing to try new things at least once. My red-lines that I will never do are:

  • Scat and diaper play
  • Blood / cutting
  • Violence
  • Blackmail
  • Anything illegal
  • Racism
  • Excessive pain or hair pulling
  • Food play
  • Cum swapping
  • I like to receive rimming but I will not do it on you.
  • Smoking, vaping or drugs (I don't mind if you vape or 420 friendly)


Sexual Orientation Sensuality & what turns me on!
I am Pansexual and Polyromantic. It means I can be attracted to anyone regardless of sex or gender and I can be attracted to multiple people, not all at the same time or with the same intensity.

I like it when someone plays with my hair and touch's me all over. Run your fingers on my skin all over my body ever so lightly. And especially when I'm tired and about to sleep. That's the best feeling anyone can give me 🩷🥰🩷

Seeing naked cis-women, cis-men, crosdressers, trans or anything naked does zero for me in terms of sexual stimulation. Only light touching from someone I find their personality intriguing is when I get stimulated which can go sexual very quickly. In fact, seeing genitals before I got to know your personality well, makes me run the other way!!!


I am doing the surgery for (downstairs), therefore I will not have my male package. But, I can use a strapon on my partner should they desire it. My sexual pleasures stem from primarily seeing my partner feeling safe, enjoying themselves and wanting my affection, interaction and performance.

I read the emotions and feelings of my partner during foreplay to see the direction they are leaning in terms of whether they want me to make love to them or surrender my body for their pleasure. It is important for my partner to feel safe, feel good and enjoy themselves; and on that regard, I see myself as submissive (don't confuse me with slaves and sissies or bottoms, that is not me)

I am incredibly affectionate and romantic. Passion runs deep within me. I do not like mindless casual sex or gangbangs; that is definitely not me. Unless I have a personality connection with you and you show interest in me by interacting with me daily, I will never be interested in anything intimate with you.


Dom/sub play
If you are a Dom and want to own/collar me, keep in mind the following:

  • I am extremely vanilla and I never tried anything like that.

  • I "can be" extremely submissive but, you will have to earn your place as a Dom before I submit to you. And, until that happens, I will rip your heart out and shred it to pieces so tread lightly if you dare.


Race and Background
I believe that if someone falls-in-love with another, then background, race, history, place of birth and origins are all irrelevant. What’s relevant is the person you chose from the moment you commit and decide to be together with them and moving forward.
I personally believe that: it is unhealthy if one cannot let go of indoctrinated beliefs and allow past situations to dictate the present. Therefore, I am not affiliated with any race/culture/belief system or a group; I am one individual that doesn't associate with anything.

Family Approvals
I live my life for me and not family or society. Family’s opinion of my life is not a factor of concern for myself. People (including family) are free to think what they want. It is irrelevant what anyone thinks as long as I and my partner(s) are happy with our life, it is all that matters and nothing else. Anyone (family included) who wishes to be our friend are welcome and all opposing people are not our friend and I stay neutral towards them. After all, life is short and I’m too old for this shit to worry and care about what everyone thinks. And it is my core belief that everyone is entitled to think and be anyway they want as long as they are not forcing it on others.

Living a Double Life
I’m Transgender Woman and I like to go to the pride festivals in June of every year. I also wear transgender and LGBTQ jewelry. I have lots of LGBTQ+ friends from all genres. If you are not into the LGBTQ+ and don’t want to be seen with anything like that, we will not be a good match. I live my life for me and not live it to portray an image for society.

I will also not socialize and do secret meetups with someone who is trying to hide the fact they are dating a transgender woman. If you have an image of being straight to maintain in society, we will not be a good match!

It’s worth noting that, since we are getting to know each other virtually, it stands to reason that: if you think I’m worth your while, then I will ask you to invest your time to get to know me by understanding what I say on this website and following my wishes I mention on here; this is the least you can do. And remember, the best and most precious gift one can offer another is the gift of "your" time!

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