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Hello and welcome! My name is Sara, and this is my personal space on the web. This page was last updated on August 7, 2025, at 13:45 Central Winnipeg time.
A Bit About Me
I believe that everyone has the right to live any way they want, as long as their choices don’t harm others. It's important to me that we don't force our beliefs or ideologies on anyone else.
I was born on August 28, 1973, and I am a transgender woman (she/her). I'm originally from Montreal, but I now live in Winnipeg. I began my full regimen of Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) in May 2024, and my body is responding very well to estrogen.
Professionally, I work in low-level coding for hardware manufacturing and software development on UNIX platforms, which also includes server administration and security.
When I'm not working, I love spending time outdoors. Camping, beach trips, and BBQs are some of my favorite ways to enjoy nature. I also love all kinds of animals, especially donkeys, cows, goats, dogs, cats, rabbits, and birds. My taste in music is incredibly diverse and always depends on my mood.
I'm a very passionate and feminine person. Having lived much of my life with women who are lesbians, femininity runs deep within me. I'm also very direct—I always speak my mind and don't sugarcoat what I'm trying to say. Despite this, I'm always mindful of others and respect their beliefs, even if they're different from my own.
My Relationships
I am in a polyamorous relationship with Kissra, whom I met in high school, and with Kate and Angie, whom I met in 2002. Our connection has never been about physical attraction. Instead, circumstances brought us together, and over time, our interactions blossomed into a deeply loving and inseparable bond that is still going strong today. We openly embrace our bodies, genders, and identities, sharing our lives on our websites. Our personal choices are based on our own values, and we live in a way that feels authentic to us.
Identity & Values
I'm incredibly playful and flirty, and you can literally tell me anything without the fear of offending me. My identity is complex, but in short, I'm a pansexual, polyromantic, and demisexual individual in a polyamorous relationship. This means my attractions aren't limited by sex or gender, and I can be attracted to multiple people, though the intensity and timing of those attractions can vary.
I am also asexual, which means I don’t experience sexual attraction to anyone. I've written a detailed article about my journey to understanding asexuality, which you can read here: [Discovering Ace: My Journey to Understanding Asexuality].
As a family, we're not big on politics or religion. We also don’t use drugs of any kind—not even marijuana, though we don't mind if you're 420 friendly. We also don't smoke or vape and only drink alcohol socially.
We are all healthy and disease-free, with no allergies or medications. I personally get tested for STDs/STIs as a requirement for my upcoming bottom surgery.
Connecting With Me
If you feel like we'd get along, I'd appreciate you taking the time to get to know me by reading through this website. The greatest gift you can give anyone is your time, and I truly value that.
My Relationships and Values
Last updated: 7-Aug-25@13:50-hrs Central Winnipeg time.
I appreciate the many questions I receive about my relationships and what I look for in a partner. I’ve put this page together to share a bit more about my romantic life and values, in the hopes of creating clear, honest connections.
- A note on my relationships: I am in a unique polyamorous relationship with three amazing people. We are not in an open relationship and are not actively seeking to add new members to our polycule. However, as I continue my journey on hormones, my partners support me in dating and connecting with new people. We are open to the possibility of a new member joining our family if a deep connection forms.
- What I’m not looking for: I am not interested in open relationships, casual encounters, or one-night stands. I also do not engage in sub/sissy or D/s dynamics and am not seeking a Mistress or Dominatrix.
- My identity: I identify as pansexual, polyromantic, and demisexual in a polyamorous relationship. This means my attractions aren't limited by sex or gender, and I can be attracted to multiple people, but the intensity and timing of those attractions can vary. My relationship with my partners, who are lesbian cis-women, is built on a long-standing and loving bond. I am also asexual, which means I experience no sexual attraction. You can learn more about my experience in this article: [Discovering Ace: My Journey to Understanding Asexuality].
What I Value in a Partner
For me, personality is everything. Your kindness and empathy are the most important things I look for. Here are a few qualities that are key to a lasting connection:
- Personality is paramount: Being a kind and empathetic person is the most important factor for me. I truly value the people who are nice to me, and I never forget their kindness.
- Authentic engagement: While a good personality is the first step, consistent engagement is what keeps a connection alive. Even a simple daily email to say “hi” can make a difference. If you engage with me enough, I will eventually let you know that I'm falling for you. I am very affectionate and never shy about expressing my feelings.
- Shared interests and values: I'm drawn to people who love nature, animals, and the outdoors. It’s also important that you are open-minded, honest, easy-going, and drama-free. We may not be a good match if you are politically conservative, highly religious, racist, or live a double life.
- Honesty and clarity: I deeply value honesty and direct communication. I find that using vague language, telling "white lies," or selectively omitting truths is dishonest.
- My flirtatious nature: I am naturally flirtatious and enjoy connecting with all kinds of people. I believe the human body is a work of art and am not shy about expressing that. If you are with me, you will see me talking to all sorts of people to gain experiences and learn from different perspectives. I am honest, loyal, and if we commit, I will be exclusively yours and support you in all circumstances.
Living an Open Life
I am a transgender woman and openly celebrate who I am. I love attending Pride festivals and wearing LGBTQ+ jewelry, and I have a diverse group of friends from all walks of life. We may not be a good match if you are uncomfortable with the LGBTQ+ community or don’t want to be seen with someone like me. I live my life authentically and for myself, not to maintain an image for society. I will not meet with someone who wants to hide the fact that they are dating a transgender woman.
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