Sara Mays

Welcome to My Website!

Hello and welcome! My name is Sara, and this is my personal space on the web.

A Bit About Me
I believe that everyone has the right to live any way they want, as long as their choices don’t harm others. It's important to me that we don't force our beliefs or ideologies on anyone else.

I was born on August 28, 1973, and I am a transgender woman. I'm originally from Montreal, but I now live in Winnipeg. I began my full regimen of Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) in May 2024, and my body is responding very well to estrogen.

Professionally, I work in low-level coding for hardware manufacturing and software development on UNIX platforms, which also includes server administration and security.

When I'm not working, I love spending time outdoors. Camping, beach trips, and BBQs are some of my favorite ways to enjoy nature. I also love all kinds of animals, especially donkeys, cows, goats, dogs, cats, rabbits, and birds. My taste in music is incredibly diverse and always depends on my mood.

I'm a very passionate and feminine person. Having lived much of my life with women who are lesbians, femininity runs deep within me. I'm also very direct—I always speak my mind and don't sugarcoat what I'm trying to say.

My Relationships
I am in a polyamorous relationship with Kissra, whom I met in high school, and with Kate and Angie, whom I met in 2002. Our connection blossomed into a deeply loving and inseparable bond that is still going strong today. We openly embrace our bodies, genders, and identities, sharing our lives on our websites.

Identity & Values
My identity is complex, but in short, I'm a pansexual, polyromantic, and demisexual individual. This means my attractions aren't limited by sex or gender. I am also asexual, which means I don’t experience sexual attraction to anyone.

I've written a detailed article about my journey to understanding asexuality, which you can read here: Discovering Ace: My Journey to Understanding Asexuality.

As a family, we're not big on politics or religion. We don’t use drugs and I personally get tested for STDs/STIs every six months as part of my regular hormone level checks.

Connecting With Me
If you feel like we'd get along, I'd appreciate you taking the time to get to know me by reading through this website. The greatest gift you can give anyone is your time, and I truly value that.