♡ Sara Mays ♡

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Last updated: 31-Dec-24@14:00-hrs Central Winnipeg time.

Briefly about me:
My name is Sara. I'm born on 28th of August 1973. I am a transgender woman (Male To Female - MTF). I identify as she/her. I'm originally from Montreal, but now I live in Winnipeg. I started my full regiment of HRT (Hormones Replacement Therapy) in May 2024, and my body is taking well to estrogen (the female hormone).

I work in software development/programming with server administration/management and security. My hobbies all involve outdoor activities and I love to be out in nature. My favorite pets are donkeys, cows, dogs, cats, rabbits and birds of all kinds. My music is incredibly diverse and depends on my mood. I am very passionate and feminine, I lived most of my life with cis-women who are lesbian and femininity runs deep within the fiber of my being. I always speak my mind and I don’t sugarcoat what I’m trying to say. I stay mindful of others and respect other people's beliefs even if they conflict with my own.

We are a couple. My soulmate and partner in life is a lesbian cis-woman, her name is Kissra. We are poly and have been couples (soulmates) since high school and still going strong. Our relationship is unique and not typical.

We are incredibly open minded and absolutely not shy or embarrassed of our bodies, sexuality and fantasies. We share our sexuality publicly to whomever want to see it. We are not forcing our lifestyle on others and we do not need to defend or justify our ways to anyone; therefore, your approval or opinion is irrelevant to us.

We have two very distinctive personalities. Myself Sara, I’m incredibly playful and flirty. You can literally tell me anything and I won’t be offended. Also, I am Pansexual and Polyromantic. It means I can be attracted to anyone regardless of sex or gender and I can be attracted to multiple people, not all at the same time or with the same intensity.

Kissra, my soulmate and partner in life, is the opposite of me. She is not flirty, incredibly formal, incredibly direct and forward and not afraid to speak her mind. Kissra is a lesbian boyish femme chick and into cis-women ONLY when it comes to romantic/intimate relationships with her specifically. If you are a "lesbian" cis-woman and within her age range (between 45 to 55 years old), are in good physical health and physically fit, then you and Kissra can be a good match, if you have class, your personality is good, and can distinguish between fantasy and reality.

Kissra has zero interest in cis-men, cross-dressers, transgender people and all in between. She’s also a Dominatrix/Mistress. She does not dominate me because I’m not into the slave/sissy fetish. However, she has many slaves and sissies and she has her own intricate private club that I’m not privy to discuss.

Kissra is not interested in dick, or anything that has to do with male or Dominant people; remember, lesbian means NO BOYS!!!

Unless you are a slave or sissy, then she gets off on giving you the treatment.

Myself Sara and Kissra are not duo in play with non-members of her club. Therefore, if you want to chat with me, keep Kissra out of our conversation. Likewise, if you are interested in becoming her servant slave, then go to her website, look for "The Coven" and follow her steps. I'm flirty by nature and you can literally tell me anything and I won't be offended. HOWEVER, never make the mistake to associate my attitude and personality with Kissra's. She is incredibly formal, structured and not flirty.

If you wish to get involved in a relationship with us, we are Poly and come as a one-package together! Also, please note, gender, age, background, looks or wealth are meaningless to us. What we look for is your personality!

We don’t care for politics, we don’t believe in religions, we don’t do drugs of any kind (never done drugs in our life), not even marijuana but we don’t mind if you are 420 friendly. we also do not drink alcohol (only socially) and we don't smoke cigarettes or vape.

We are disease free and healthy with no allergies and not taking medications of any kind. I personally get tested for STD/STI (Sexually Transmitted Diseases/Infections) as part of my requirement for the bottom surgery (Male To Female).

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If you think I’m worth your while, then I will ask you to invest your time to get to know me by understanding what I say on this website and following my wishes I mention on here; and this is the least you can do. The best and most precious gift one can offer another is the gift of "your" time!

My Relationship and Sexuality

Last updated: 31-Dec-24@14:00-hrs Central Winnipeg time.

To learn about our poly relationship and to be involved with us romantically / intimately

What I am not into, is “open relationships” / “group sex” or “one night stand/casual encounters”, that’s definitely not me! Also, I'm not into the sub/sissy or D/s dynamics. I am not looking for a Mistress or Dominatrix.

I am Pansexual and Polyromantic. It means I can be attracted to anyone regardless of sex or gender and I can be attracted to multiple people, not all at the same time or with the same intensity.

What I look for in a partner

I am physically attracted to people with shaved heads, regardless of sex or gender. Also, people who are a bit on the chubby side (not fat) and who take care of themselves in terms of clothing, grooming and overall health.

I also find myself more attracted to trans people, crossdressers, queers and gays more than the typical cis-woman/man hetro people.

Your personality will be the single key factor that will determine if I will paint a beautiful image of you in my mind or not. Without your good personality, I will never be attracted to you and will not be able to get sexually stimulated when we are intimate together.

My definition of good personality: Your empathy and kindness are the most important aspects I will look for. Being nice to me in general will go a long way with me. I never forget the people who are, and were, nice to me. Although a nice personality will get you through the door; however, without constant engagement with me, I will simply forget about you, until you surface back again into mylife. A simple daily email telling me “hi” will keep that connection going. And if you engage me enough, I will approach you and tell you that I’m falling for you. Remember, I am extremely affectionate and absolutely not shy or embarrassed from telling people, who I’m infatuated with, how I feel about them.

You also have to be someone who loves nature, animals and the outdoors. You need to be open minded, honest, easy going, drama free, and not too opinionated. If you are conservative in thinking, religious, racist, political or live a double life, we will not be a good match.

Honesty and being precise is key. Using double language, telling white-lies or selectively omitting some truths is deceitful and dishonest.

I’m flirtatious by nature. I talk to everyone. I believe the human body is a work of art and I’m not shy to show it off artistically. Unless I commit to someone, I will talk to all walks of life to gain experiences and learn from different perspectives. If you are with conservative views, you might not view me to your liking; therefore, be warned!
I am honest, drama free, precise, loyal and if we commit, I will be reserved to you only, and I will support you in all circumstances.

If you wish to get involved in a relationship with me, myself and Kissra (my soulmate and partner in life) are Poly and come as a one-package together! Also, please note, gender, age, background, looks or wealth are meaningless to us. What we look for is your personality!

My qualities & being with me!

I am a feminine-hybrid who is physically transitioning from male to female:

My partner(s) enjoys my feminine body and feminine psychology without the associated feminine or masculine annoyances.

For men:
Being born a male at birth gives me the advantage to know, with crystal clarity, male wants, ambitions and needs; I also got to know, very well, the female nuances that annoys males when being in a relationship with a CIS woman.

I feel like one of my best qualities include the best a female can offer mentally, sexually-(in terms of open minded and willing to explore and accommodate) and loyalty without the unwanted baggage since my logic and reasoning has male rationale that is grounded and in touch with actual reality. I feel that I can offer sound logic and peace of mind while providing the best pleasures one can ever explore, when contrasting with CIS women.

For women:
Understanding women's frustrations with men's nuances is my quality when being with a woman. You’ll find me refreshingly different and harmonious. I am genuine, loving and caring without the jealousy or superiority complexes. Also, very important to mention that I am very passionate, romantic and feminine. I lived most of my life with cis-women who are lesbian and femininity runs deep within the fiber of my being.

Sexual Hard Limits
Sexually speaking, I’m willing to try new things at least once. My red-lines that I will never do are:

Scat and diaper play
Blood / cutting
Violence
Blackmail
Anything illegal
Racism
Excessive pain or hair pulling
Food play
Cum swapping
I like to receive rimming but I will not do it on you.
Smoking, vaping or drugs (I don't mind if you vape or 420 friendly)

Sexual Orientation Sensuality & what turns me on!
I am Pansexual and Polyromantic. It means I can be attracted to anyone regardless of sex or gender and I can be attracted to multiple people, not all at the same time or with the same intensity.

I like it when someone plays with my hair and touch's me all over. Run your fingers on my skin all over my body ever so lightly. And especially when I'm tired and about to sleep. That's the best feeling anyone can give me 🩷🥰🩷

Seeing naked cis-women, cis-men, crosdressers, trans or anything naked does zero for me in terms of sexual stimulation. Only light touching from someone I find their personality intriguing is when I get stimulated which can go sexual very quickly. In fact, seeing genitals before I got to know your personality well, makes me run the other way!!!

I am doing the surgery for (downstairs), therefore I will not have my male package. But, I can use a strapon on my partner should they desire it. My sexual pleasures stem from primarily seeing my partner feeling safe, enjoying themselves and wanting my affection, interaction and performance.

I read the emotions and feelings of my partner during foreplay to see the direction they are leaning in terms of whether they want me to make love to them or surrender my body for their pleasure. It is important for my partner to feel safe, feel good and enjoy themselves; and on that regard, I see myself as submissive (don't confuse me with slaves and sissies or bottoms, that is not me)

I am incredibly affectionate and romantic. Passion runs deep within me. I do not like mindless casual sex or gangbangs; that is definitely not me. Unless I have a personality connection with you and you show interest in me by interacting with me daily, I will never be interested in anything intimate with you.

Dom/sub play
If you are a Dom and want to own/collar me, keep in mind the following:

I am extremely vanilla and I never tried anything like that.

I "can be" extremely submissive but, you will have to earn your place as a Dom before I submit to you. And, until that happens, I will rip your heart out and shred it to pieces so tread lightly if you dare.

Race and Background
I believe that if someone falls-in-love with another, then background, race, history, place of birth and origins are all irrelevant. What’s relevant is the person you chose from the moment you commit and decide to be together with them and moving forward.
I personally believe that: it is unhealthy if one cannot let go of indoctrinated beliefs and allow past situations to dictate the present. Therefore, I am not affiliated with any race/culture/belief system or a group; I am one individual that doesn't associate with anything.

Family Approvals
I live my life for me and not family or society. Family’s opinion of my life is not a factor of concern for myself. People (including family) are free to think what they want. It is irrelevant what anyone thinks as long as I and my partner(s) are happy with our life, it is all that matters and nothing else. Anyone (family included) who wishes to be our friend are welcome and all opposing people are not our friend and I stay neutral towards them. After all, life is short and I’m too old for this shit to worry and care about what everyone thinks. And it is my core belief that everyone is entitled to think and be anyway they want as long as they are not forcing it on others.

Living a Double Life
I’m Transgender Woman and I like to go to the pride festivals in June of every year. I also wear transgender and LGBTQ jewelry. I have lots of LGBTQ+ friends from all genres. If you are not into the LGBTQ+ and don’t want to be seen with anything like that, we will not be a good match. I live my life for me and not live it to portray an image for society.

I will also not socialize and do secret meetups with someone who is trying to hide the fact they are dating a transgender woman. If you have an image of being straight to maintain in society, we will not be a good match!

It’s worth noting that, since we are getting to know each other virtually, it stands to reason that: if you think I’m worth your while, then I will ask you to invest your time to get to know me by understanding what I say on this website and following my wishes I mention on here; this is the least you can do. And remember, the best and most precious gift one can offer another is the gift of "your" time!

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My Active Social Media

    OnlyFans@SaraMays.blog If we never met in real life and I don’t know you, then impress me by sending me a DM (Direct Message) on OnlyFans. It will only cost you $10, but it will set you apart from the rest because it will tell me that you care. No one pays (even symbolic) for something they don’t want. So, consider this as a first virtual date.
Here you can see very intimate media about me and we can have fun. If we click and there is a connection, we can pursue a relationship or be real good friends. ;)

    Tumblr@SaraMays.Blog Tumblr is the best place to learn about me. I blog my daily activities and post videos and pictures about my transition and the changes my body is going through on estrogen.

    YouTube@Sara-Mays I stream-live when I’m playing video-games. Yes, I’m a gamer nerd, and you can see me playing live. I also do PodCasts and post daily updates about my life and whatever I find interesting.

    TikTok@KissraSara I make short videos of me trying out different outfits. You can suggest outfits in the comments and I will make a video wearing it ;)

    FetLife Our fetishes and sexual fantacies as a couple, myself Sara and Kissra.