Evolution

My journey, my progress, and my reflections.

"Unless explicitly stated on our websites, please refrain from making assumptions about my partners... or me." — Kissra

My Measurements

Sizing for Your Kind Gifts

I'm so grateful for the incredible support and kindness I've received from all of you. It means the world to me. I've had many of you ask about my clothing sizes because you'd like to send me a gift, and I've put all of that information here.

I want to be clear that this is a guide to help you choose the right fit if you decide to send something. It is not an invitation for any inappropriate comments or to sexualize me in any way. I appreciate and value your respect.


  • Shoulders: 16" (40.64 cm)
  • Sleeve: 23" (58.42 cm)
  • Waist: 27.5" (69.85 cm)
  • Hip: 41" (104.14 cm)
  • Inseam: 28" (71.12 cm)
  • Shoes: Women's USA size 9
  • Dresses: Women's USA size 6 (small)
  • Jeans: Women's USA size 5 (28" inseam, 27.5" waist)
  • Height: 5'8" (174 cm)
  • Weight: 150 lb (68 KG)

My Music Playlists

Sara's Wacky Mix

This is my everyday music listening. Best to shuffle-play this playlist!

Relaxing

Very relaxing, meditation and my sleep music.

Mellow Moods

If you are in a euphoric state, listen to this playlist.

Metal

Sometimes I need a burst of energy... a melodic one!

Kissra: "It is crucial for people to understand our dynamic—especially those approaching from Sara's side of things:

  • On our bond: Sara’s external connections are not a reflection of our internal strength. Just because Sara is dating, it does not imply that our relationship is weak, troubled, or ending. Our bond remains solid regardless of her outside dating. Do not mistake her freedom for our instability.
  • On our structure: We are a closed family unit. Sara’s autonomy to date does not mean Katie, Gigi, or I (Kissra) are seeking partners, nor are we looking to date or make friends with anyone. Any attempt to insert yourself into our private space is an overstep and will not be tolerated.
  • On professional boundaries: Our history in the adult industry and my role as a Dominatrix are not invitations. We are not available for anyone’s whims or forced 'friendliness.' If you are here as Sara's friend, please stay in that lane. Gigi, Katie, and I (Kissra) do not open our private space to outside friendliness, and we do not place value on external social bonds. Respect the boundary of our home and stay focused on Sara.
  • On trust: No one gets the benefit of the doubt with Katie, Gigi, and me (Kissra). Trust is earned only through consistent actions over an extensive period of time.
Conclusion: If you are Sara’s friend, stay focused on Sara. Shifting your attention to the rest of us is an insult to the entire group. Any attempt to cross these lines will be met with an immediate and extremely negative response." — Kissra

Notes on an Authentic Life

These are the chronicles of an ecosystem built on empathy, transparency, and a refusal to compromise. Within these notes, we share the logic and the heart behind SAK2.

★ Featured Note
Demystifying Kissra's Personality — "Boundaries and Reality"

A vital clarification on the non-negotiable boundaries between Kissra’s professional work and their private "vanilla" life. They address false assumptions, their identity as a committed lesbian, and the fierce protection of their partners—specifically their life partner, Sara.

Explore this Journey →
Our Story: Sara and Kissra with our polycule Read Chronicle →
Steel, Softness, and the Fifth Member Read Chronicle →
Who is Sara? Read Chronicle →
Who is Kissra? (The Shield) Read Chronicle →
Who is Angie? (Gigi) Read Chronicle →
Who is Kate? “The Oracle” Read Chronicle →
The SAK2 Rulebook Read Chronicle →
The SAK2 Blueprint Read Chronicle →
The Legacy of Empathy and Choice Read Chronicle →
Kissra: The Protector and the SAK2 Hierarchy Read Chronicle →
Closing the Chapter Read Chronicle →
Jealousy in SAK2 & our Internal Structure Read Chronicle →
Discovering Ace: My Journey to Understanding Asexuality Read Chronicle →